Daphs, you didn't let Barney slap you around. He victimised you and made you afraid. And from what you told me about the situation with Raz, he really might have been your father. It isn't as if the idea was completely far-fetched, knowing his history. And Ron, well, he is a decent sort of person, so there's not much to be ashamed about there.
As for Auror Crouch, you were young. And other witches who ought to know better have been guilty of the same.
I don't know what to tell you to make you feel better, except to say that no one thinks you're pathetic. Literally everyone I know admires you for one thing or another. And if you can't stand not knowing my secrets... well, there is a way for you to find out, but I honestly don't know if you'll like it.
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Date: 2014-05-23 09:28 pm (UTC)Daphs, you didn't let Barney slap you around. He victimised you and made you afraid. And from what you told me about the situation with Raz, he really might have been your father. It isn't as if the idea was completely far-fetched, knowing his history. And Ron, well, he is a decent sort of person, so there's not much to be ashamed about there.
As for Auror Crouch, you were young. And other witches who ought to know better have been guilty of the same.
I don't know what to tell you to make you feel better, except to say that no one thinks you're pathetic. Literally everyone I know admires you for one thing or another. And if you can't stand not knowing my secrets... well, there is a way for you to find out, but I honestly don't know if you'll like it.